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so, this is what it's going to be like

came across this post from anthony that will challenge church leaders...

in essence, there are two key holidays that churches use to build from (Easter and Christmas...I would include Mother's Day, but he didn't) - and the question is...

Will they experience a weekend on par with your Easter service? Or will they find a bait-and-switch sucker punch waiting for them this week?

having served on staff in both small and large services, i must say, i was challenged by that quote - why? because i know the honest answer...

having said that, let me reference a quote from craig that puts into perspective some of what those in ministry have to go through...i dont' normally excerpt directly from other posts, but i feel this one warrents it (props to craig for a great series of posts he's doing right now)...

Pastors, your life is different.

I used to fight for the normal life. One of my mentors told me that as long as I strive for normal, I’ll fail. He encouraged me to embrace the differences of ministry and learn to flourish within those differences. (Living the balanced life will likely be impossible.)

Pastor, here are just a few ways your life is different:

  • You prepare new messages every week for the same crowd. (I can’t think of any other profession who does this without the help of curriculum or speech writers.)
  • You do what many managers or business owners do. (The short list includes: maintaining the building, building new facilities, hiring, training and firing staff, overseeing the budget, raising money, recruiting and leading volunteers, etc.)
  • You shepherd the flock. You might counsel someone who is suicidal, meet with a couple who is about to divorce, do a funeral and a wedding before your preach on the weekend.
  • You are rarely “off duty.” Like the doctor who might be on call one weekend a month, you are almost always “on call.”
  • Though your hours are flexible, they are generally long and unusual. You work many nights, weekends and most holidays.
  • You have the pressure of life in the “fish bowl.”
  • Your role creates many social obligations.
  • No matter how much you do, your ministry is never “finished.”

Some resent the differences. Some embrace them. I choose to embrace the differences and strive to follow Christ as my model instead of the culture’s cry for balanced living.

in the words of bill o'reilly, "what say ye?"

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Another teacher and I were talking today about what we call "Chreasters" which are those people that ONLY go to church on Christmas and Easter. We were talking about how funny it would be if a pastor preached a sermon on Easter Sunday about people that only come to church on those days.

~Sandy~

Rachel said...

Ministry is hard and time consuming. But the reward is greater than any other profession. Ministry is definitely a calling not just a choice. Darlene says she used to try to find the perfect balance between ministry, marriage and motherhood. She's come to realize there isn't a way to divide it evenly. Sometimes ministry takes precedent other times it's marriage or motherhood. I think those are wise words. (Not just because she said them!)

rickwomack said...

great comments...thanks!